Questions For Complementarians And Egalitarians

How would Complementarians (i.e., Patriarchalists) and Egalitarians answer these questions?

1. MARRIAGE: 
a) What things must a wife first get her husband's permission to be or do that a husband does not first need to get his wife's permission to be or do? 
b) What things must a husband first get his wife's permission to be or do that a wife does not first need to get her husband's permission to be or do? 
c) What things is a husband allowed to be or do that a wife is not allowed to be or do?
d) What things is a wife allowed to be or do that a husband is not allowed to be or do?

2. CHURCH: 
a) What things in church must a woman first get permission to be or do that a man does not first need to get permission to be or do? 
b) What things in church must a man first get permission to be or do that a woman does not first need to get permission to be or do? 
c) What things in church is a man allowed to be or do that a woman is not allowed to be or do?
d) What things in church is a woman allowed to be or do that a man is not allowed to be or do? 

For each answer, also explain "why."